Have you stopped referring to your opposite sex friends as “friends” yet? Remember, friends is a broad term that will inevitably confuse situations and relationships. Having friends is a great thing – but you have to call them by what they truly are. With members of the same sex you have friendships – with members of the opposite sex you have CRs, dudeships, organizationships, or coupleships. Period. There is no in-between. As you walk down the road toward Dudeships bliss it is important to hammer the language in your head. If you haven’t identified which of these categories your current “friendships” fall into there is no better time than the present. Remember, we are here to help guide you from darkness into the light. And we welcome any questions you have.